My most beautiful thing you can receive is a love letter......as if I have stated on several occassions. It takes time and thought.
I guess that's the Victorian in me.
white paper on black ink
white tiered gown with a black bow. A black hat with a white rose.
old perfume bottles with small rose bud on a silver mirror
two tier cake in shape of your state......a gold pen as a topper
do an a letter exchange after your ceremony. Take a quiet moment to read it to each other.